How do you choose your playmates/friends?  What attributes do you look for?

 The way we pick our girls are personality isthe Biggest thing and then the looks. We look to see how u carrry your self and we want you to be able to get along with all our frends because we party alot together.: 001_icon16: 

I was fortunate enough to find an online club that caters to the Swing Lifestyle and being 10 years into it, you meet different people.   I look for a certain sexiness and upkeep of a person.  You have to be clean. carry yourself with the utmost respect and be willing to be a third in most cases.   If I see someone that interests me, male or female, it's easier to approach them.  In the club, we have meet and greets and just all out parties. 

Its personality for me an there definately must be some physical attraction. She must be clean and hygienic  as i am.